"Being the Cool Woman
indicates I'm a sexy, amazing, crazy lady that loves sports, online poker,
messy jokes, and burping, who plays online games, drinks cheaper alcohol,
enjoys threesomes as well as anal gender, and jams hot dogs and burgers in to the
girl mouth area such as she is web hosting the earth's greatest culinary gang
bang whilst in some way preserving a size Two, simply because Nice Ladies tend
to be especially sexy. Sexy and knowing."
A few days ago a buddy delivered
me the quotation above and required, "Do men really need the Cool
Woman?" The short response is "yes" and also "no." Let
us breakup the phrase the "Great Woman" and see how many of these
items really issue to males.
Being Sexy and Understanding
This really is where the meaning
will get fuzzy sufficient will be able to positively say yes - males need the
ladies they date to become sexy and knowing. But exactly what "sexy"
indicates is actually completely subjective. Sexy doesn't, as the classification
at the start of this piece suggests, suggest you need to be a dimension Two. We
all people such as ladies of all sizes and shapes. The other of the best
reasons for a lady is last term in the classification: knowing.
Beneath all the burping and also
the online poker and the putting hotdogs down your own throat, men care and
attention the best regarding becoming recognized. We wish a person who obtains
all of us, who are able to observe that we're great and cherishes all of us for
who we're. While I don't believe you have to be a brother or a gender maniac to
become a "Cool Woman" I do need to make it clear: men think the best
thing you can do is actually understand who they really are.
Being great begins with becoming
real to what you are as a people. So "knowing" may include knowing
and interacting the number of feelings you feel. You obtain jealous? Own it.
Work on it. Talk about it just like an grownup. That's a great type of knowing,
while he is certainly going via very similar feelings in a connection and may
just as be cool. Great here's, in its easiest feeling, getting close to
circumstances rationally and interacting successfully. Uncool is allowing your
stress levels as well as responses dominate and dropping any sense of empathy
for your partner.
